Written by Lak Loi, Founder of Martial Mind Power
#energyvampires #darkness #negativeenergy #invigorate #positive #light
What do these words mean?
- Enervate means to make someone feel drained of energy. You may even know an ‘energy vampire’ that sucks the life-force out of you when you are within their presence, with their negativity and darkness.
- Invigorate means to give strength and energy. You may know someone who is always positive, inspiring, empowering and liberating, and makes you feel energised and alive.
Negative company
Have you ever been around someone with negative energy? How do you feel when you are in their company? Do you know someone who sucks the life-force out of you? I call these people energy-vampires and make a concerted effort to stay away from people like that.
Have you noticed when you are low, what kind of company you attract? That’s right. Like energies attract after all.
Positive company
Do you know anyone that makes you feel energised? Makes you feel alive? That resonates with you and makes you feel like you’re on a higher state of consciousness.
Invigoration is therefore the art of lifting someone up, so they are vibrating on a higher frequency.
Law of Attraction
Have you noticed how the ‘Law of Attraction’ does not focus on negativity, and how to deal with it, rather just positive centric.
The problem with that is, life is a wave, a cycle, a rhythm, a continuous motion. And all waves have a peak and a trough. What goes up must come down. What goes down must come up.
So what’s the big idea. Well it is to maintain a balance, and when imbalanced, restore balance as quickly as possible by processing the excess positivity or negativity, to maintain your centre. When you experience a traumatic situation, what may usually take you a month to process… what if you could process that in a week or a couple of days and reclaim the rest of that month to a live to the fullest.
Mismatching energies
What happens when you have a low energy and a person comes into the room with high energy, or when you have high energy and someone comes into the room with a low energy. That’s right, you want them to go away because their energy is in-congruent with yours. Mismatched energies cancel each other out leaving a void, a spaceless space, an awkwardness if you may.
Matched energies
Q. What happens when two people are resonating at the same frequency?
A. The amplitude of the frequency doubles.
Q. What happens when more than two people are resonating at the same frequency?
A. The amplitude of the frequency all add up, to create a much higher frequency. This is the power of collective consciousness. When a mass of people are congregated towards the same outcome and thinking at the same vibration, then the energy multiplies by the number of people present. That’s why church call it ‘mass’. The power of a collective is far greater than an individual when directed towards a common outcome.
Leading and pacing
So how can you deal with someone who has a low energy and you have high energy. Well the idea is to physiologically come down to their energy level (not psychologically or energetically but expressed through your body and voice), and through establishing rapport on an energetic scale bring them up to a higher energy level leaving them feeling better. That does not mean you have to get depressed to be on the same level, I mean you keep one foot in the door of their state so you empathise with them, and one foot outside the door to stay connected to your true higher state towards which you are wanting to bring the other person up to.
Q. Would you ever bring a persons energy down?
A. Yes of course. What can go up, can also come down. So long as it is done with congruency and ecology towards a higher positive intent, then it is a good thing. If you do it to try and manipulate someone, then when your intentions are foiled your trust will be broken and may never be rebuilt – so you are warned, do it with highest positive intent always!
An example when you’d want to bring someones energy down would be when your kids are uber excited before going to bed. You want to relax their energy so they are calm and ready to put their pretty little heads down to sleep, happy and relaxed for a good nights sleep.
Fuel
And finally, remember, if you are giving energy to invigorate others, then you must be consciously aware that you have enough energy to give. It is like you are a fuel tank of energy, and when you give it away your resources can become depleted. So remember to refuel your own tank by withdrawing and taking time to yourself to do that. As I say, you can only give something away if you had it in the first place.
Next steps
The main question now really is… How do you Choose to be ?
Recommended reading
To learn more about managing your energy and state, checkout the ‘Honestly Express Yourself’ chapter of the Master Your Life book by yours truly.
Peace & respect, Lak